Tuesday, October 23, 2012

In Class Post #9

      What was up with her face? Why does she have to be so angry about this? He didn’t like her. He loves me for the way I am and she was not the right person for him. That is why he married me. He told her he wasn’t the marrying type because he was afraid of commitment. His parents got a divorce when he was young. He didn’t trust her.  He thought that she would leave him someday just like his mom left his dad. He didn’t want to have to live through that memory again. He wanted to be with someone who he could trust. I helped him work through that and we are happily married now, and yes I am carrying his baby. We would talk about it all the time and I could tell in his face he was bothered by the thought of marriage. I knew from the start I wanted to marry this man and I knew I would have to help him. I didn’t push him either. That is something that his ex-girlfriend did. She got mad at him every time they would talk about it and she wouldn’t understand where he was coming from. I am a very understanding person. No, my parents did not get a divorce but I understand why he would be afraid. If my parents were divorced I would be a little scared too. We dated for two years and I figured out a way to help him get through it. I told him over and over that I would love him unconditionally no matter what would happen. Through sickness and in health, I would be there. It took some time, but we worked through it. I love him more than anything in the world and I cannot wait to have our child. His ex-girlfriend is just going to have to get over it and move on.

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